Steps to Helping your Child through Divorce

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Divorce is difficult for everyone involved. This is especially true when it comes to a child whose parents are getting a divorce. The divorce attorneys at Larsen Law Firm in Provo want to help you in making the divorce process easier on you and your family. We have provided you with some steps you can use when you are helping your child through the process of your divorce.

 

Let your Child know they are Loved

The first step you will want to take is letting your child know that they are loved. When relationships fail or parents don’t follow through with what they say they are going to do, children often think it is their fault because they did something or behaved in a certain way. You need to continually reassure your child that the other parent’s lack of commitment has nothing to do with her “lovability.” Instead you can try and explain actions in a way that lets your child know that they are not to blame.

 

Don’t Pretend

As a parent you will want to avoid pretending or sugarcoating the actions of your ex-spouse when they do something that disappoints your child. At the same time you will also want to avoid bad-mouthing your ex. While this may seem like a hard balance to achieve it is possible. Let your child vent without your criticizing or apologizing for the absent parent. Being there for them to express their feelings openly will help them through the divorce process.

 

Encourage Communication

Divorce is a huge lifestyle change for not only you and your ex-spouse, but for your child as well. As they get used to the situation you will want to encourage open communication. Let your child know they are allowed to express their feelings of fear, disappointment, anger, and confusion. Do what you can to alleviate any of the emotional stress they may be experiencing. Come together to develop a plan for growth and change that you can accomplish as a team.

 

Divorce is never a fun process. This is especially true for your children. It is often a scary and very confusing time. By following the steps above you can be there for your child to help them through the process in the best way possible. When it comes to all the legalities of your divorce you can trust the divorce attorneys at Larsen Law Firm in Provo to give you the advice and guidance you need. Call our office today to schedule a consultation.

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