Starting to co-parent

After a divorce and the process that comes with it that decides custody and visitation time, a parent has to adjust to only being with their kids during certain predetermined days and times. As your Divorce Lawyer Provo Utah, we can help you through this legal process. This is a major change in the lives of everyone that this involves. Your kids will not have to get used to having two of everything: two beds, two wardrobes, and two of other things. Both parents will have to get used to communicating and make sure while they are no longer together they are still on the same page as far as parenting goes. 

Communication is key. When parenting your and your ex-spouse should be talking about what parenting strategies you both plan on using. Think about how you will handle punishments, schoolling, screen time, and other things. It is important for both parties to be on the same page, as this can help your kids not be confused. When you and your ex-partner are not on the same page your kids may get confused and will have to keep track of two different sets of rules. 

Talk with your kids about this transition. Have them ask you questions, talk about what is going to happen, where they will be living, and where they will be going to school. Being open about the transition can help you kids understand what is going on and that it is ok for them to come talk to you. 

As far as physical possession goes, remember to have a set of toiletries at each house, at the bare minimum. Other items can be transported back and forth, but having a backup toothbrush can always be helpful. Your kids can be forgetful, so also having a couple of sets of clothings is also a good thing to have.